A Child’s
Guide to Eldercare
When does
it Begin
Caring for your parents---when does it begin?
Parents are heroic people; they bring children
into this world, feed them, nurture and love them and accept their
idiosyncrasies no matter what. They sacrifice time and effort to take care of
their children and make sure they grow up to be caring and responsible
individuals.
Parents are superheroes because they can be
everything their children want them to be. They can be happy for their children
even when they are actually feeling sad and burdened by the daily challenge of
keeping their family above the water when times are hard.
Parents are a very important part of the lives
of their children because they are responsible for molding these clay-like
individuals into what they will become in the future. No person could have
managed to become what he is without the support of his parents.
But what happens to parents when they have
reared their children and their children lead lives of their own? Parents are
human beings and they succumb to old age and health problems that come with
being old. Who will take care of them when they become frail and can no longer
work to care for themselves?
While parents do not really impose on their
children, the latter have a moral responsibility to take care of their parents
when they can no longer fend for themselves. It is not so much paying back
their efforts to rear their children but has more to do with returning the love
that they gave their children when they were still helpless babies until the
present when they are already independent beings.
The ideal situation is for parents to prepare
for their retirement by resorting to a good retirement or financial management
plan. This way, the parents no longer have to totally rely on their children to
take care of their financial and other needs when they are already retired.
There are parents who have prepared well for
their retirement and have made investments that can already financially support
them and the things they like when they grow old. Some parents who were wise
enough to prepare for the future spend their retirement days traveling and doing
things they did not have time to do before.
But how can a person know if his parents are
already in need of his support? Modern times and the modern way of living have
somehow lessened family ties. A person who has elderly parents should make an
effort to live closer to home or to visit them regularly to check on them or
just to let them know they are being thought of.
When parents sickly and/or forgetful, then the
children should make some provisions for them. If the children cannot regularly
be with their parents then they should get quality healthcare and assisted
living for them. This could be quite a struggle especially if parents insist
they are still strong and can still take care of themselves when the reality is
that they are unable to do so.
Americans have become accustomed to being
placed in institutions when they become too old to take care of themselves.
However, this is unthinkable for some people who have been reared up under close
family ties. In other countries, the children make sure their parents live with
them so they can take care of them personally.
A person will know when his parents are already
in need of closer attention when they start to notice remarkable changes in
their attitudes and personal hygiene. Parents who usually dress well and are
sociable may be at the brink of desperation and loneliness when they start to
become recluses and refuse to be included in family occasions.
It is also wise to monitor the cupboard and the
refrigerator of elderly parents to make sure they have enough stock and they are
eating the right kind of food. It is time to worry when their refrigerator show
signs of failure to buy groceries and other food for their daily subsistence.
This could mean they have forgotten to shop for their groceries or they are
taking their mealtimes for granted .
Parents who have gotten accustomed to being
independent may find a hard time adjusting to that period when they require care
from another adult. This takes a lot of patience and every child should invest
his time and effort in making sure his parents are given the same love and
affection they showered on him when he was still a helpless child.
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